Woman Shares Emotional Story Of How Her Boyfriend Physically And Verbally Abused Her! ‘Di mo napigilan sarili mo sinuntok mo ko ng maraming beses sa mukha’

• This woman went to Facebook to share her story.
• She claimed that she has been in a relationship with her allegedly abusive boyfriend.
• She shared photos of her bruises which she claimed had came from her former partner.

When you enter a relationship, you expect that you will get all the love you deserve as much as you give. There are times when you realize that not all relationships can be perfect because there are instances when both parties have their shortcomings. But since you are into the idea of love, you would accept these imperfections and strive to have a better relationship with your partner.

However, when things are starting to get toxic and abusive, you have to have the courage to free yourself.

This must be the important realization of Facebook user Shayne Baldoza who shared her unfortunate experience with her ex-boyfriend.

“I’ve kept my mouth shut for so long, thinking that you would stop going around talking shit about me to your friends, making them think that this is all my fault and that you are the good guy. But the truth is, you never were. So here it is. I’m telling everyone the real story behind these bruises and the reasons why I got all of these from you.”

Shayne claimed in her post that she had a relationship with her former partner for three years. She shared that he became verbally abusive towards her. He called her demeaning names and accused her of cheating. She also said that he was very strict when it came to the people she could hang out with.

“We were together for almost 3 years. You were my first boyfriend. I introduced you to my whole family and they accepted you wholeheartedly. I admit, I’ve never been a perfect girlfriend, i am impulsive, i have flaws, i always have this bitchy attitude when I am jealous or mad. Just because I don’t know how to handle our relationship. I explained it to you so many times that I am that kind of girlfriend who’s such a pain in the ass, because of my anxiety. I thought you would understand but I was wrong. You started to be verbally abusive, you became possesive that I cant even hang out with my friends and When I do you’ll start calling me “pokpok” “malandi” lahat na ng masakit na salita. I accepted that, even though deep inside I am emotionally destroyed by those words. It hurts because I know in my heart that I invested so much love for you, I gave you all my time and effort just to make you feel that I won’t ever cheat on you. I even ditch my friends just to prove to you that I love you and I don’t want you to get paranoid everytime I am with them. I sacrificed a lot just to make this relationship work.”

Shayne’s ex-boyfriend allegedly started to hurt her physically. There were times when she had to hide her bruises from her parents and make up stories to explain them. She mentioned an incident when they had an argument and her boyfriend hit her in the face until she felt nothing but numbness. Shayne also mentioned that her ex-boyfriend made up stories that affected her image.

“Until you also started becoming physically abusive, I tried hard enough to cover up every bruises you gave me. Lagi kong sinasabi sa mga nakakakita sa mga pasa ko na “clumsy kasi ako palagi akong nadadapa or tumatama sa upuan” 
hanggang sa dumating yung time na, sobra kang nagalit dahil sobrang nagger ko. Nagaway tayo dahil sa sobra kong selosa inaamin ko yun. Di mo napigilan sarili mo sinuntok mo ko ng maraming beses sa mukha, hanggang sa magmanhid yung left part ng face ko. I even asked you “pano ko sasabihin to sa nanay ko?” then you told me na sabihin ko na lang “nahit and run ka ng motor” that moment di kita nakilala inexpect ko na maghihingi ka ng tawad sa mga magulang ko pero I never heard even one sorry from you. Pinalayo ka pa ng mga magulang mo dahil takot sila na baka masaktan ka ng parents ko. Nanahimik ako, kasi mahal kita. 
pero sobra na.. Sobra na yung paninira mo, sobra na yung mga kwinekwento mo sa tropa mo. You never admitted your mistake. Mas gugustuhin mong magmukha kong bitch sa pangingin ng iba. Kasi ayaw mo masira image mo. I dont deserve all this bullshit.”

At the end of her post, Shayne declared all her realizations and claimed that she is trying to be a better person.

“I know that I’ve also made mistakes in our relationship, but that doesn’t justify what you did to me. I will never understand why a guy should physically hurt a girl and walk this earth like nothing happened. I’m saying this because sobra sobra na yung ginagawa mo. I can’t keep my mouth shut anymore lalo na ngayon na sobrang binabastos at dini-disrespect na ko ng mga kaibigan mo. I hope this will serve as an eye opener to all the other girls who are in a toxic and abusive relationship. I can proudly say that it is a relief that I got out of that relationship and now I’m trying to be a better person.

To you, Patrick Ogaitnas sana nakakatulog ka ng mahimbing sa gabi. I’ll pray for you.”

Many netizens expressed different statements regarding the incident. They said that Shayne is brave enough to expose all her experiences. They also commended her patience in staying with her ex-boyfriend for 3 long years.

Shayne’s boyfriend on the other hand, received criticism from the social media community. However, there are online users who claimed that Shayne’s boyfriend should also air his side to clarify the issue.

If you were Shayne, would you have what it takes to free yourself from the relationship? Share your insights in the comments section below.