- This female netizen shared what she had to say about why men cheat.
- She received a message from a guy who was apparently in a relationship.
- She provided advice to both men and women.
It will always be a complex query why some men cheat. Taking it from Liza Soberano’s heartbreaking line from the latest movie ‘My Ex And Whys’: “Am I not enough? May kulang ba sa’kin? Pangit ba ako? Kapalit-palit ba ako?”
Apparently, it’s not just women who are complicated, men are too; especially in this kind of case even if you’ve been a good partner.
Facebook user Jazz Buenviaje is wondering the same thing as well. She shared she started to find answers herself after receiving a private message from a guy who was apparently in a relationship. Sucks for his girl, right? She began her post by titling it ‘PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE’ then posing the baffling question: “Why do men cheat?”
The rest of her timeline post goes:
“This has always been a question for me na napakahirap sagutin. An almost-perfect relationship, sweet photos flooding your news feed and then one day magpapalit ng status from In a (madly-deeply-crazy-in-love) relationship to Single. Then this happened last night. I do not know her girlfriend personally not even my friend here on fb and this guy I believe was my schoolmate back in college. Now after this conversation I figured out something na isa sa mga sagot sa tanong ko.”
“Naisip ko, ano kayang mangyayare kung nagtuloy tuloy yung conversation? Let’s say I replied all the way? Pwedeng from there magcha-chat na kame regularly hiding it from the people we love? And from that time, I am convinced that it can be labeled as cheating already.”
“We’ve been seeing a lot of photos being shared on social media about this ‘cheating’ and all that cases. It’s really heartbreaking for me. Seeing other girls being totally broken and hindi lahat ng tao minsan kayang i-combat yung pain.”
“I figured out, we can help to avoid broken relationships. We can help other girls not to undergo severe heartaches and pains. So to all the girls who can read this post, I would plead [to] you. Let’s stand for each other. If someone (lalo na guy) chatted u and you’re in a relationship or vice versa please do put a limit and be honest. Wag na naten bigyan ng daan yung anumang bagay that can ruin everything. Let’s respect each and everyone’s feeling most especially girls.”
“And to some of the boys out there. I really don’t know your reasons. Why in the midst of having a good relationship with your girlfriend somehow may mga moves and actions pa din like this. One thing I can tell. Kung may mga pagkakataon man na nagsasawa, napapagod or anomang nararamdaman nyo para sa kanila always go back to that very first day. Bakit mo sya niligawan. Bakit mo sya ginustong maging girlfriend. What r the traits and characteristics nya yung nagustuhan mo? Go back to that and spend some time with her. A different from the other. And kung mrealize mo na di na talaga sya yung gusto mo, set her free. Looking for someone while u still haver is like punishing her for just loving you. Your love guys is what makes us beautiful, strong and confident. So please, let’s all try and give our best to stay faithful.”
“God bless us all!”
What can you say about what she has to say why some men cheat? Do you agree on her advice to both men and women? Share your thoughts with us in the comments field below.
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